January 31st, 2006
|tnkrbell1703||11:20 am - Love and Marriage...|
So lately I've had these dreams...a series of dreams actually over a 3 day span. I'll summarize them for you briefly.
Dream I: I don't remember this one, I told Dan about it...so I'm going to make a guess and say that it had something to do with marriage directly. I think Dan might have actually asked me in this one...
Dream II: Okay in this one, "Will you marry me?" was written on a gift bag. Yes, a gift bag. And I remember a car full of people waiting outside my house in my driveway for me to celebrate. But, I kept forgetting things and I never got outside and it kept getting later and later, and I just couldn't get out there because i never got "ready".
Dream III:In this one, I was standing up in someone elses wedding. I was wearing a pink and white dress. And cinderella kept being mentioned at first. And then I realized I was at Sarah and Dan's wedding. So, in my pink pretty dress I went to stand up with the best man and some usher said, "No, your not the maid of honor, go stand with the other brides maids"...and so i walked over. I felt really sad. Then they went to go take a group photo. And I remember not having time to take off my glasses for the picture (because i always take my glasses off for pictures), and the photographer wouldn't retake the picture.
So those are my dreams, any interpretations?
Current Mood: curious
Maybe you are just thinking about marriage lately, of any kind, and your dreams just twist it around in strange ways.
And OMG, that last one sucks. But I can tell you, that will never happen lol!
Way to let the boy down easy, Sarah. j/k.
Yeah, maybe I am just thinking about long commitments and marriage.
Lol...the "year of sarah".
Sorry, that just popped into my head.
Definitely since they've been happening over a three day span, it appears that you have long time commitments, marriage, and trust on your mind. The fact that you consult Dan about these dreams symbolizes that you trust him in the same accuracy you would a potential husband, the one meant for that wedding. The second dream stems more on the possibility of a wedding ever happening. It says that you are a generally busy type of person who is always trying to do so many things at once you sometimes forget that something is supposed to be fun and be more about you than the ultimate organization of an event. The last dream indicates that you feel that other weddings are destined to probably happen before your own. But you might feel that you lack something that attaches you to a wedding point of view, hence your exclusion from being the maid of honor. Or perhaps you feel a bit shy about the idea of participating in an actual wedding? Otherwise the part about the glasses just shows that if you have something big and emotional happen very recently, you have a tendency to think about them and stew instead of remembering easy patterns of behavior, like taking your glasses off before a picture!
Thanks for the input!
That thing about the glasses is straight on! I definetly didn't make that connection at first until after reading your intpretation. Thanks for your input, it's really helpful. It's amazing what one symbol in a dream turns out to mean. Thanks again!
The second one sounds like you're not ready for something, and you keep making your own obstacles to postpone it. And while it may have something to do with committment, it's probably nothing to do with marriage. I mean, from a Fruedian point of view that's just too obvious. So maybe some other committment that you're thinking about, but you're not ready for yet. Oh, and actually, the fact that it's a gift bag that says "will you marry me?" could suggest it's less about your relationship with a person, and more about some internal committment you have to make to yourself...ok, not so sure about that. Just trying to figure out what the gift bag means...hmmm
And the third one seems to deal with you feeling like you're on the outside in some sense. You're watching someone else's fantasy (cinderella) come true, but not your own. And not only that, but you feel like you're purposely being excluded.
Just guesses...I hope they help, either by being accurate or by giving you a new light on the dreams.
I really like your intrepretation because if I'm reading into it correctly. It seems like my dreams about marriage are actually about school and my inner struggle to stay committed to staying on track. And of course the last dream then would be you and sarah have already completed COD, so i'm watching "someone elses fantasy". But who knows, either one of these intepretations on this page could be the case. Could, even be both really.
I was actually thinking it might be about school, but I didn't want to slant the way you interpret the dreams. I was just trying to give general interpretations and leave the specifics up to you. But yeah, school was what occured to me too.
Or maybe they really are just about Lens Crafters...
lol, yep, that was my other thought.
Just in case its not about school or lens crafters...would you marry me so the dreams stop?